Thereâ€™s a wave of public outings of men in the entertainment industry of sexual predatory behavior (Iâ€™m not even talking about Roman Polanski). I think when the Woody Allen scandal first hit, it was confusing to me because I love his work. Joss Whedon, producer of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, one of my favorite TV shows, a fictional heroine who inspires me to keep going when Iâ€™m physically and psychically exhausted, has also been outed as someone who cheated on his wife for decades with twenty-something actresses. That was a major blow. When the Bill Cosby story was beginning to circulate, I had a co-worker who didnâ€™t believe it since she had worked with him and he was such a gentleman. Our personal experiences aside, I believe in the saying where thereâ€™s smoke thereâ€™s fire.
They are particularly tough when the stories about men who have at least professionally championed women, but I have come to feel these false idols need to get knocked down. And this is just Hollywood. Pretty sure every sector has scary stories about men in power who have been taking advantage of vulnerable, lower status women for decades, just like Harvey Weinstein. I think itâ€™s healthy that these stories have come to light and these developments give me hope that things could be shifting, although you know what they say about progress â€“ one step forward, two steps back â€“ so weâ€™ll have to wait and see.